MARRIAGE Do you want to get married? What? To you? Excuse me? Do you? I said, "Do you? Do you?" Do... Because I...I have been thinking about this a lot lately. And I think... Have you? So you're...asking me to marry you? Technically, you're asking me. And this is your idea of a romantic proposal? Well...it's unique. Do you have a ring? Only adds to the uniqueness. So you're ready to give up everything and everyone and be with only me for the rest of your life? Mmm. Mmm-hmm. Oh, yeah. Huh, I'm not. But you...you don't wanna...marry me? I don't know. What do you mean you don't know? We've been together for, like, three years. What more do you need to know? I don't know if you're ready to commit to me for the rest of your life. Don't we... We live together. I've heard you fart! Tyler's bachelor party in Vegas this summer, that stripper clearly wanted to sleep with me, and I was like, "Hooo, hooo, hooo," but I couldn't, because I have a girlfriend at home. What do you mean I'm not ready to commit? That's insane! I spent a thousand dollars on that girl. It seems that you are. Oh, god! Good night. What do you mean you could've slept with a hot stripper?! Her name's Candy. She's putting herself through medical school, okay? Why do you care? Because I just told you mine. Who... It doesn't matter. Who cares? I've been with 26 chicks. I don't know. All very satisfied. What's the big deal? No, I'm saying I don't know what my number is. 〈你想娶我嗎〉是首女生視角的歌曲,袁詠琳透過這首80年代復古曲風加上流行電子元素的歌曲,用有別於以往的唱腔,娓娓唱出女生的心聲。
〈你想娶我嗎〉MV拍攝足足拍了快24小時,Cindy這次在MV中與閨密大跳舞蹈,配合歌名還特別設計了戒指舞,當唱到「親愛的你想娶我嗎」這句歌詞,就會有強調手指上戒指的動作。 MV男主角找了好朋友涂善存特別演出,原本正在馬來西亞拍戲的他,為了Cindy專程向劇組請假三天。其中無論是要在超市邂逅上演男追女情節,到最後天臺浪漫傳情,兩人都能在導演的要求下完美呈現。縱然拍攝近24小時,兩人依然精神奕奕,拍到凌晨都不喊累,好交情不言而喻。 為什麼我們對求婚的想像,總是如此單一?男生單膝下跪,拿出鑽戒,問女生 Would you marry me? 在那一天之前,女生總是只能等待。現在,讓我們一起改變吧,如果女生先準備好了,就由我們先說,你想娶我嗎? 坐在咖啡廳窗邊,我們又嘻嘻哈哈聊起了生活瑣事。最近余文樂結婚了呀,妳說,連心中的男神都步入婚姻了。林宥嘉和丁文琪還有寶寶了呢,我說,時間怎麼過得這麼快呢? 感覺二十歲還是一晃眼之間的事,一下子輕熟女這個詞就突然屬於我們了。幸福的是閨蜜常在,但人生卻感覺總是停留在同一個階段。 圖片來源 20 vs 30,看見的不一樣還記得大學畢業,初入職場那幾年,我們有著雄心壯志,想著打拼幾年要坐上某個位子,或是存夠了錢還要出國讀書,那幾年,我們放下家人、情人,只想著為自己做點什麼。結婚生子什麼的,聽起來像是下個世紀才要擔心的事情。 那些為自己設下的目標,隨著在職場歷練越多,有些做到了,有些不想要了。眼界漸漸放寬,對於事業的追求不再盲目,而是能找到真正適合自己的空位,在那裡發光發熱。 圖片來源 30歲生日那天,我們幾個閨蜜也是約在這間咖啡店。妳們幫我切蛋糕,拍下我吹蠟燭的照片,我覺得好感謝生命中有妳們,不同的是,有人手上戴著婚戒,有人肚子漸漸大了起來。 那天回家,我看著手機螢幕中與男友的合照,光是手機裡就有一千多張啊,
每份回憶都好清晰,好美。 剛剛說過了晚安,當下卻想要傳訊息給他,但我不知道該說什麼、怎麼說才好。 內心好像有什麼感受正在發酵,我工作穩定了,生活穩定了,感情呢?交往那麼多年,也穩定了嗎?明明很喜歡你的溫暖,習慣在睡前和你說聲甜甜的晚安,也喜歡你厚厚的手臂,為什麼卻會如此不安呢。 親愛的,你想娶我嗎?其實,在工作上我總是很果敢的啊,對於未來人生的圖像也很清楚了,好想結婚了,卻為何總是說不出口。是不是因為總受制於要讓男生開口的傳統?還是擔憂男朋友根本沒有想要娶我的想法呢?其實,仔細想想,現在是什麼時代了,想結婚,由我來說出口又如何。
聽著袁詠琳這首輕快的《你想娶我嗎》,內心的勇氣好像被滋養了。結婚終究是兩個人的事,何必糾結於誰先開口?對於婚姻的渴求,不過是希望共譜一個有你有我的未來,而身邊既然有適合自己的人,我不想再等待,只想鼓起勇氣,追尋答案。 |